Organising team building yourself? 8 questions that will really make your team day stronger
Organising team building yourself: where do you start?
A organise team day seems simple on paper: pinpoint date, find location, fill in programme and done. In reality, we see at Mossels from Brossels that this is precisely where many teams get stuck.
A team building is not a separate event. It is a connecting moment that can make an impact - or drain away completely - depending on the choices you make beforehand.
Whether you are organising an international team day with colleagues flying in, or a local teambuilding itself: These questions will help you go from “fun” to “lasting”.
In this article
1. What is the real purpose of our team building?
The most forgotten question.
Want above all:
- having fun and unloading?
- connect and get to know each other better?
- reflect on collaboration?
- break patterns?
- Refuel energy after a busy period?
We often see teams “just booking a team building”, without focusing on the goal. It is then often a junior, assistant or team member who asks the question, at the manager's behest. Without having properly talked through what it should deliver. The result? Expectations clash.
Tip:
Make explicit what this day should deliver for the team as well as for the organisation.
2. What about the energy level of our team?
In many team days, the pace is fast: flights, meetings, dinners, social moments, workshops...
We experienced it recently: a content inspiration session scheduled just after international colleagues arrived. Jet lag. Full head. Empty battery.
Tip for those organising a team day:
Build in rest. The bow cannot always be tight. Often this also varies throughout the day. What you couldn't estimate beforehand. Can you build this flexibly?
Tip for facilitators:
Provide alternatives when the team needs something different than planned.
3. Do we take into account different rhythms and learning styles?
Each team includes:
- quick doers
- quiet thinkers
- creative minds
- silent observers
When you have a teambuilding itself, it is tempting to choose one format. But people learn differently.
We therefore often work with moments of choice: playful versus reflective, action versus in-depth - with the same learning objective.
Question to ask:
Are we giving space to different ways of participating? At a time like this, surely everyone really wants to please 😉
4. How much “work” and how much “fun” can it be?
Not every team building should be tough. Not every team day has to be superficially fun.
It's about balance.
Ask yourself:
- Is this supposed to be especially discharging?
- Can it be sanded?
- Do we want to take insights to the workplace?
- Or is this mainly a reward moment?
At Mossels, fun is always in the DNA - but the ratio varies from team to team.
Tip: When proposing to decision-makers. Ask them the question: Is the fun-to-work ratio right here?
5. Does our location fit our purpose?
An inspiring location does more than you think. And Brussels has some options for that. If your budget is more limited, consider GCs. But otherwise there are a lot of surprising places.
Pay attention not only to “beautiful”, but also to:
flexibility of spaces
opportunities for exercise
zones for rest
creativity and game elements
Ask:
Does this place help strengthen our team dynamics? (And that can be done in affordable ways too 😉 )
6. When does our team building really start?
Spoiler: not on the day.
Strong team days start in advance with:
- teasers
- short questionnaires
- input from a core group
- raise expectations
This is how you increase engagement and impact.
Ask:
How do we warm up our team? Send a note already, or a teaser? Maybe a video? Definitely split the “enthusing part” and the “practical part” there”
7. What happens after the team day?
Good energy evaporates quickly without follow-up. Who grabs that note with action points?
Think in advance:
- something tangible made together
- visual anchors
- team appointments
- a return moment
We often recommend scheduling a short check-in one month later. To feel where are the questions still and how do we move forward with this.
Ask:
How do we make this day a starting point?
8. What do we do ourselves and where do we enlist help?
Anyone organising a team day wears many hats:
- organiser
- coordinator
- facilitator
- stakeholder manager
- and sometimes participant
You don't have to do all that yourself. Because it's just mega-difficult to wear all those caps, and then also be able to have fun as a participant. And maybe actually participate.
Smart approach:
Determine in advance: what do we keep internal, where do we let go, and where does external guidance bring added value?
Organising team building yourself? You don't have to carry it alone.
A strong organise team day requires more than a script. It requires coordination, timing and daring to choose.
At Mussels from Brossels, we sometimes step in for one session. Sometimes we think along for the full journey. Always with a focus on connection, fun and impact.
👉 Fancy sparring together on your next team building?
Feel free to get in touch - we will be happy to focus on the right questions together.
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